The Proper Care & Feeding of the Male: The Wind

 

THE PROPER CARE AND FEEDING OF THE MALE: THE WIND

For the Ladies out there, if you are reading this men are simple. They don't need a vase but you do have to choose wisely. Men are like the wind, they will pass you by because they are on a mission, you can't see the wind like the invisible emotions of a man, but if you allow them to blow you away then choose that one. If a man blows you away you know he is in it for the length of love and that is forever. That is blow you away with his kindness, gentle touch, not so eager pursuit, the pedestal he brings with him to put you on, his listening ear, his loving heart, his true friendship, his protective spirit, his strength of mind and character, his full busy life tapered with benevolence, his courage, stamina, love for and service to God, and his patient and steady flow of affection as he waits for you to bloom in his direction. As long as they have managed, controlled, dealt with, distinguished and identified, let go of and handled their emotions then they will be ready to blow you away, like the wind. That doesn't mean they have it all figured out, it means they are ready to show their masculinity and sensitivity at the same time and that's all we ladies need. And remember giving him what he wants in the beginning doesn't mean he will give you what you want nor does it mean he is in it for the long loving. A man can get what he wants from any woman if she is open to it, but withholding and waiting and watching and making sure he earns your heart will help you know that you have waited for the right wind to blow your way. We are looking for protectors and a gentle touch like the song "I want a man with a slow hand, I want a lover with an easy touch, I want somebody who can spend some time...." (move slowly, touch gently, and give us attention), that's what we need and if we understand our man and give him room to be king so he can treat us like a queen then we can rule our castle together, weather any storm together,  and set each other's hearts on fire. That's not so hard. Don't look for your father in the wind because that wind is always there, sometimes still and other times swooshing by and holding its blow to protect you. You don't need another dad or to find someone to replace the dad you never knew. You will never get what you want because all he will want to do is discipline you and you don't need that in matters of the heart. Your dad did that already and if he wasn't around to do that you have to do it for yourself.

When we both, male and female, work on our stuff and issues knowing we can have what we truly want, then the male is ready to go searching for the perfect rose and the female can wait for the wind to blow them away..........gently.........but powerful....