Lust vs. Love
So many people in and out of relationships confuse lust with love. If a guy calls me over and wants to have sex with me, he must love me, I mean he called me and no one else this time. If a guy says, “you look so hot in that dress and then talks dirty to me or tells me all the things he wants to do to my body and says he wants to make love to me” he must love me, right? Wrong. This could happen if you do love someone, the second part that is, but love probably came first and I think it should before you ever get to the lust part otherwise the love part may never happen. Love is pure and kind and special and sacred, it doesn’t lie, it doesn’t need to pretend, it doesn’t need to hide, it doesn’t need to coerce and force and it never makes promises it doesn’t intend to keep. Love is just love. So when you start out caring for someone before you touch their body then you have the potential to open the passageways of love to come into that relationship and you will respect each ...